Could this be Harriet Butcher, buried next to Joseph and Adaline Taylor?
1874 Tombstone:171, v. 2, bk. 2, p. 317. Tam Cemetery, Duchouquet Township, Auglaize County, Ohio.
Harriet Butcher
w/o James Butcher
d. Nov. 6, 1874
27 years 1 month
1850 U.S. Census:391 Harriet enumerated in the household of her father Joseph Taylor in Perry Township, Allen County, Ohio as a female, age 3, born in Ohio.
1870 U.S. Census:390 Harriet enumerated in the household of her father Joseph Taylor in Uniopolis, Union Township, Auglaize County, Ohio as a female, age 22, white, at home, born in Ohio, mother foreign born, attended school within the year.